A Lustful Person
Na Pashyati Madonmatto Hyarthi Doshaanna Pashyati
The person born blind cannot see. Even the person blinded by sexual desire can’t see. Neither the one blinded by his power nor a rich man can see. –Chanakya Pandit
There was an incident of gang rape of a young medical intern in a running bus in New Delhi a few months back. She was thrown out of the running bus after being beaten severely. She died after a few days. This triggered a nationwide outcry resulting in many agitations, stone pelting, seminars, speeches etc. which forced the government at the Centre to make a strong law to protect women from sexual assaults. This has given the hope that the women may feel secure a bit more. Yet most of the women in the country are still unaware that they can get justice against sexual harassment legally and those guilty can be punished under the law. Even those who are aware, very few show the courage to come forward and file a complaint.
But a few courageous women came forward and filed a complaint against Laxman Mane. So far five women have lodged a complaint against him at police station.
A few years back, the then governor of Andhra Pradesh N. D. Tiwari was caught on camera indulging in lewd behavior. He was subsequently removed from the post. Then a young man filed a petition in the court stating that Tiwari was his biological father. Tiwari initially denied the charges but after the court ordered his DNA test, it was proved that he was indeed the biological father of the young man.
This incident pertains to Tehelka.com editor Tarun Tejpal molesting his own colleague in Goa in 2013. He was arrested and the case is still on.
The editor who exposed the dirty secrets of many senior politicians, leaders, professionals is now himself a victim of his own deeds. He had sent many to jail, but now experiencing the same fate. Why such things happen? There are very simple reasons to it:
The false ego, that only I know the dirty secrets of the mighty leaders and only I can make them pay for it.
The huge publicity and monetary benefits gained out of these scandals
The acceptance of so called civilized culture of non-vegetarian food and alcohol drinking. This doesn’t satiate sexual desires and results in increasing uncontrolled behavior
The persistent demand that women should be treated equal at all levels and be involved in all activities. This demand is not for the benefit of women, but to get their company and if possible their sexual exploitation.
The wish that a lady working with us should be just 20 years old and beautiful like full bloomed lotus.
Tarun Tejpal fell morally due to these reasons and caught himself in the legal tangle. He himself fell in the ditch he dug for others. You reap what you sow.
Naarinaamam Nayanaadeshhaa
Suraanaamapi Durjayhaa
Sa Yen Vijito Loke
Haribhaktaha Sa Uchyate
It is very difficult even for the gods to ignore women’s eye signs. But the one, who has overcome this, is known in the universe as devotee of Lord Hari. - Padma Puran 61.12
Prajapati Daksha says to Narad Muni in the sixth chapter of Shrimadbhaagawat Purana, ‘Sexual pleasure is indeed the root cause of all sorrows; but the common man does not give up his materialistic pleasures until he himself experiences how this life is full of difficulties. That’s why he should be allowed to enjoy these so called earthly pleasures. But at the same time, he should be given the opportunity to earn the knowledge that shows the false happiness of the materialistic pleasures. Once he earns this knowledge, he himself will start loathing the materialistic pleasures. Those who recluse themselves from such false earthly pleasures of life after experiencing their myth and hollowness, really keep themselves from such things much better than those who give up these pleasures on the advice of others.’
Today’s media is so fast that any crime gets quick publicity. Despite this, the news of incidences of sexual atrocities keeps increasing every day. We see/read the misdeeds of mighty people from village to metropolis on the TV/ internet. It shows that people from all walks of life, from sportspersons to film personalities, from police to government officials, from doctors to nurses, from so called saints to mulla-maulavis, padre to nuns, rich to poor- all are engrossed in sexual pleasures. The news of sexual harassment, atrocities, murders, kidnappings, molestations, stalking- all sorts of crimes which originate from sexual wants are a daily occurrence.
Even Prophet Mohammad had to live with those barbaric people who were engrossed in sexual pleasures while he was spreading the message of Islam in Arabian Desert. He realized that these people live the life of wild animals. They incest on their mothers, sisters and even own daughters. It is nearly impossible to keep them away from committing such sins. They won’t just listen to anyone. That’s why Prophet Mohammad asked them to get married to four women to satisfy their libido. In the Holy Bible Jesus Christ, too, says to those who want sexual pleasures but are deprived, to get married. Even the Hindu Vedas state to stay away from sex if one wants to experience divine enlightenment.
It is seen that a person overtaken by the sexual desire, tries to chase woman on the road. He stalks her; tries all the tricks to get her. Sometimes he sweet talks her, sometimes establishes friendship and encourages acquaintance. Sometimes he uses social service to create a good reputation for him. Everything is fine if she willingly responds to these acts positively; but if she refuses his advances then all hell broke loose. In olden days, one would send rose bookeys or love letters to the woman of his desire; now-a-days one uses e-mails, Facebook, SMSs etc. Sometimes he bluntly asks for her love. But if the woman complaints to her relatives about him, he is in for a clean bashing.
Maarkandeya Purana says-
Kaamhaa Sarvaatmanaa Heyahaa
Sa Cheda Dhaatum Na Shakyate
Swabhaaryaam Prati Kartavyahaa
Saiva Tasya Hi Bheshajam
Sex is always a good riddance. But if it is impossible to get rid of it, then one should use it only with his wife since she is the only cure for the sexual desire.
After seeing all the bad news about sexual crimes, a civilized person is right in asking the question- Why it happens. Why somebody gets so sexually charged up? Why he becomes a monster even when the victim is his sister, mother or daughter?
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